Q我女儿快4岁了,有时我会教她一些写写画画的知识,但是她总是写两笔就说“我不会”。她有时心血来潮也会自己写几下,发现写不好后,就会大发脾气。当看到同龄的小朋友会写会画时,她又很羡慕,嚷着要学。这是怎么回事?我该怎么做?对于幼儿学习的指导,要把握两点:时机和方法。时机就是细心观察,尊重孩子自己成长的节奏。比如对于学写字,恰当的时机是孩子自己表现出想学写字的意愿,同时,他的手部肌肉也发展到位。当这两条都不具备 Q My daughter is almost 4 years old, and sometimes I teach her some knowledge of writing and drawing, but she always says, “I will not.” Sometimes she writes a few times on her own whim, and if she finds it badly written, she will lose her temper. When I saw the same age children will write pictures, she envy, cried to learn. What’s going on? What should I do? There are two things to grasp for toddlers’ learning: timing and method. The time is to observe carefully, respect the pace of children’s own growth. For example, for writing, the proper time is for the child to show his / her desire to learn to write, and at the same time, his hand muscles develop. When neither is available