能忍人之所不能忍,乃能为人之所不能为。历史上常有这样的事,有人因出言不慎,或不拘小节而失礼于人,结果小衅引来大辱,乃至杀身之祸、灭门之灾,甚至亡国亡种。春秋初期,宋国第一勇士、大将南宫万在郎城一战被鲁国所擒,直到齐、鲁、宋三国交好才被遣返 What can not be tolerated, but can not do for the human. There have always been such things in history. Some people have been rude because of their mistakes or sloppy actions. As a result, small provocations have led to great shame, and even to the devastation of their own lives. In the early Spring and Autumn Period, the first warrior of the Song Dynasty and general Namdaemun were captured by the Lugu people in World War I, until they were repatriated in the three countries of Qi, Lu and Song