诗曰:宠辱不惊,闲看庭前花开花落。所谓“宠辱不惊”就是宠不过喜,辱不过忧。能做到如此坦然的前提是“人贵有自知之明”。何为自知之明?即心里明白何为本我。无论是遭受到别人的批评,还是赞赏,自己可以理智的分析那些话是否符合自己的事实,符合则莞尔一笑、点头默许;不符合亦莞尔一笑,呵呵放下。人是如此,万物皆是如此。我一直在思考为何“仁者乐山,智者乐水”?其实,古之圣贤借用山之巍然、水之广阔表达两种人生态度、处事风格。立足点不同,结论自然千差万别,一 Poetry said: Petition shocked, leisurely watching the flowers bloom before the court. The so-called “pet shame not scared ” is the pet but hi, shame but worry. Can be done so frank premise is “people are aware of yourself ”. What is self-knowledge? That is my heart to understand why this. Whether subject to criticism or appreciation by others, they can reasonably analyze whether those words are in accordance with their own facts. If they meet the principle, they will smile and nod their acquiescence. The same is true of all human beings. I have been thinking why “Benevolent Leshan, Wise Le Shui”? In fact, the ancient sage borrowing the towering mountains, the vast expanse of water, two attitude to life, service style. Different footholds, the conclusions vary widely, one