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有一段时间,报纸上连续刊登了几个某地大学生为情所困,最后选择了绝路的报道,听来让人十分痛惜。按理说,这些有知识、有修养的年轻人应该比别人懂得更多的道理,可他们仍然摆不脱感情的纠缠,有的甚至还采取激烈的手段强迫对方与自己同归于尽。这些令人触目惊心的例子,说明了现代人处理感情问题的能力实际还十分薄弱。那么,到底什么才是决定幸福的关键呢?其实,正是所谓的“恋爱情商”——一种在恋爱过程中个人的情绪管理能力,在决定着我们能否沿着我们所想象的既定道路走向最后的幸福。这种能力可以让你在感情世界中成熟而有智慧地处理各项问题。换言之,恋爱情商是一种与智商相提并论的能力,有时甚至比智商更重要。比如你现在可能在事
For some time, newspapers in a row published a few college students for love trapped, and ultimately chose the report of the absolute way, it sounds very deplorable people. It stands to reason that these knowledgeable and well-educated young people should know more truth than others, yet they still can not get rid of emotional entanglement, and some even take drastic measures to force each other to share with themselves. These shocking examples show that the ability of modern people to deal with the issue of affection is still very weak. In the end, what is the key to happiness? In fact, it is the so-called “love EQ” - an individual’s ability to manage emotions in the process of being in love determines whether we can follow the established path we imagine To the last happiness. This ability allows you to mature and intelligently deal with problems in the emotional world. In other words, Love EQ is an IQ-like ability that is sometimes even more important than IQ. For example, you may be at work now