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“多少夫妻在婚姻的竞技场上,耗尽一生做彼此的差评师?”这是最近微信朋友圈里转发率超高的一篇文章,引起广泛共鸣。在现今的婚姻生活中,有谁不抱怨,又有谁不被抱怨呢?可是,不管是面对面抱怨还是朝第三方念叨,或是在社交工具上吐槽,除了泄愤,抱怨对婚姻没有任何好处,反而会激起对方更加逆反。那么,面对委屈和愤怒我们如何清除抱怨?要解决抱怨问题,最好的办法不是借助一罐心灵鸡汤来安慰和麻醉自己,而是从根本上扼住抱怨的源头,达到“无事可怨”的最高境界。
“How many couples in the marriage arena, exhausted life to do each other bad division? ” This is the Weixin circle of friends over the high transmission rate of an article, aroused widespread resonance. In today’s marriage, who does not complain, and who is not complained? However, whether it is face to face complaining or talk to a third party, or to spit on social tools, in addition to vent their anger and complain about no benefits to the marriage, Instead, it will arouse more opposition. So, how to clear grievances in the face of grievances and anger? To solve the problem of grievances, the best way is not to use a soup chicken soup to comfort and narcissistic myself, but fundamentally strangle the source of grievances to achieve “nothing Resentment ”the highest level.