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有人说:拒绝也是一种尊重,这话说起来简单,但如果真要做到却需要一定的勇气和技巧。对于一般人,拒绝都是件难事,对于我们这些充满爱心,以帮助别人为己任的心理咨询师或心理教师来说,对前来咨询的来访者作出拒绝就更加困难了。然而,“助人自助”是心理咨询的基本原则,我们咨询的目的就是要来访者能够脱离开别人的搀扶独立生活。在有些情况下,理智的专业的“有求不应”是必须的选择,这既是对来访者真正的负责,也是心理咨询师的职业操守。拒绝别人心理会有些不舒服,但是这点不舒服比你硬着头皮去答应来访者、最后无法满足人家要好得多!在心理咨询中,几个典型的案例让我对拒绝有了更为深刻的理解。
Some people say: Denial is also a kind of respect, which is a simple remark, but if you really want to do it requires some courage and skill. It is hard for the average person to refuse, and it is even more difficult for those of us conscientious or psychological counselors or psychologists to make refusals to come to counselors. However, “self help ” is the basic principle of psychological counseling, our consultation is aimed at the visitors can be separated from the support of others independent living. In some cases, rational professional “not seeking” is a necessary choice, which is both a real responsibility to the visitors and a professional ethics counselor. It would be uncomfortable to refuse other people’s psychology, but this is not as uncomfortable as allowing you to bite the bullet and agreeing to do so. Finally, in the psychological consultation, several typical cases made me feel more profound about rejection Understanding.