人们的需要总是随着生活圈的扩展,随着年龄和经验的增长而不断发展、变化。我的儿子在出生后眼睛主要盯着妈妈的乳房或哺乳的奶瓶,周岁内注意的则主要是食品。民以食为天,幼儿更是如此,吃是生活的第一大事。但是,当我的儿子长到两三岁时,除了吃、喝外,更多的时间需要玩耍,玩也象吃一样,成为孩子的头等大事,只不过从性质上看二者有些不同。吃、喝、拉、撒、睡是为了满足他生理发育的需要,玩耍则是为了满足他智慧发展、个性发展的需要。对于一个健全发展的孩子来说,二者缺一不可。但是,两三岁的孩子玩,同大人玩不一样。大人玩可以徒手,而小孩玩必须有实物(主要是玩 People’s needs are always evolving and changing as their life circle expands and their age and experience increase. My son is mainly focused on his mother’s breasts or breastfeeding bottles after birth, and mainly focuses on food during his / her first years of life. People eat the sun, especially young children, eating is the number one event in life. However, when my son grows to two or three years of age, besides eating and drinking, more time is needed to play and to play like eating and becoming the top priority for children. However, the two are different in nature. Eat, drink, pull, scatter, sleep in order to meet the needs of his physical development, play is to meet his intellectual development, personality development needs. For a sound development of children, the two are indispensable. However, two or three-year-old children play, play with adults is not the same. Adults can play bare hands, and children must have physical play (mainly play