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老伴儿是一个极其平凡的人,相貌平平,事业平平,不懂浪漫,不善言谈。三十多年前经同事介绍,老实的他和单纯的我顺理成章地走到一起,没有花前月下,更没有酒席婚宴,就连结婚照都是2 0年后合成的。婚后的生活更是平平淡淡,柴米油盐。夫妻间谈不上什么共同语言,连话都说不上几句。一度我感觉生活中有他也行,无他也可。然而,随着双方老人的离世,女儿出嫁,我们在不知不觉中拉近了距离,有一种相依为命的感觉。夜深人静时,回想起往日的点点滴滴,脑海中呈现的都是他的好。我父母去世早,又有一对孪生子早夭,那些年我几近崩溃,是老伴儿不离不弃地陪伴在我身边,默默地承受着我
His wife is an extremely ordinary child, looks mediocre, career mediocre, do not understand romance, poor speech. Thirty years ago, my colleague introduced him honestly and purely, and I came together in an orderly fashion without the pre-showtime wedding banquet. Even the wedding photos were made after 20 years. Married life is mediocre, Pimlico salt. No common language between husband and wife, can not make a few words. At one time I feel that he has to do in life, without him. However, with the death of both elderly people and their daughters married, we unconsciously narrowed the gap and there is a feeling of dependency. In the dead of night, recalling past bit by bit, his mind is his good. My parents died early, another pair of twin die early, those years I almost collapsed, his wife never stopped to accompany me, silently bear with me