成功有效的谈心,应该在理论上有前沿性,在思想上有指导性,在语言上有生动性。集中体现在新、实、深、精上。 “新”就是紧扣时代,有新意。一是语言新。不论谈心对象是干部还是战士,言辞都要有时代气息,应运用新知识,讲自己的话,讲新活。如果总是老生常谈,人云亦云,说些老话、套话、过时了的话,听者不仅会产生厌烦情绪,甚至还会觉 Successful and effective talk should be theoretically cutting-edge, mentally instructive, and vivid in language. Concentrated in the new, real, deep, fine. “New ” is closely linked with the times, there are new ideas. First, the new language. Regardless of whether the object of conversation is cadres or warriors, the rhetoric must have the atmosphere of the times. We should apply new knowledge, speak our own words and talk about new life. If always cliches, people like the saying goes, saying something old saying, saying something out of date, the listener will not only produce annoying emotions, but also will feel