北大的孔祥东教授说:“家里的老大与老二具有本质性的不同和差别以及分歧和背谬,因为老大要照顾到方方面面,他瞻前顾后,左右平衡,而老二没有负责全局的义务。老大的好处是守成,但再怎么守也旺不过三代,能够中兴祖业、再振家声的,大都是那忤逆的老二。”纵观中国历史确有论据支持此种说法,但是回头看看当今世界体坛却和此说颇有抵触,可能这也是中外文化的差别。赛车界舒马赫兄弟同为高手,但哥哥在法拉利车队飙出过七次世界冠军头衔而弟弟一无所获;大加索尔在NBA 是当之无愧的超级球星,小加索尔却还在为加入这个顶级联盟苦苦奋斗;英格兰足坛的内维尔兄弟成就指数也不是一个级别的,虽然两人曾在一个战壕中并肩作战,但现在哥哥加里·内维尔依然站 Professor Kong Xiangdong from Peking University said: “The boss and the second child in the family have essential differences and differences as well as differences and absurdities. Because the boss has to take care of all aspects, he looks forward to the balance and the second child has no obligation to assume the overall situation. The advantage is to keep it, but no matter how well you keep it for three generations, you can rejuvenate your ZTE ancestors, and you are often the second youngest child. ”" Looking at Chinese history, there are arguments that support this view, but looking back nowadays The world’s sports are rather contradictory to this, perhaps this is the difference between Chinese and foreign cultures. Schumacher brothers racing with the same master, but his brother Ferrari team soared out of seven world championship titles and his brother nothing; Gasol in the NBA is a well-deserved superstar, small Gasol is still joining the top league Struggling hard; the English football Neville Brothers Achievement Index is not a level, although they had fought side by side in a trench, but now my brother Gary Neville still station