礼拜六晚上十点多,收到一封读者的私信,问:“没有一个人支持自己,怎样奋斗下去?”他刚上初三,在单亲家庭长大,跟爸爸和奶奶生活。成绩还不错,但奶奶对他要求很严格,稍微没考好就一直被批评。就算考得好,奶奶也会说,还有多少人比你更厉害。总之,从不夸奖他。渐渐的,他对自己很没自信。加上个子矮,体形胖,在学校都没个朋友。一个人努力了三年,但没一次鼓励,亲人都是打击,同学关系淡漠。总想着,自己真是这么一无是处吗?就没办法获取他人的肯定吗?从小就不自信,到了初 At ten o’clock on Saturday night, I received a private letter from the reader and asked: “No one supports himself or herself. How can he struggle?” He just started the third day and grew up in a single-parent family to live with his father and grandma. The results are not bad, but my grandmother asked him very strict, a little test has been criticized. Even if you test well, my grandmother will say, how many more people than you. In short, never praise him. Gradually, he was very self-confident. With short stature, fat body, no friends in school. A person worked hard for three years, but did not encourage once, their loved ones are against, the relationship between students indifferent. Always think, is it really good for nothing? There is no way to get the affirmation of others do not feel confident from an early age