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有人说,我们受了一辈子苦,现在应该让孩子们享享福了。于是有些父母不愿意对孩子讲过去受的苦难,怕损伤了孩子的心。只要给孩子吃好些,穿好些,生活得舒服些,对孩子的某些缺点,也不认真教育,不严格要求,以为这样才表现了父母之爱。试问这样的爱,将产生什么结果呢?势必把孩子惯成好吃懒做,贪图安逸,把他们引导到不择手段地追求个人享受的路上去。这种对子女的娇惯、溺爱,实质上
Some people say that we have suffered for so long that we should now enjoy the children’s happiness. So some parents are reluctant to tell their children the past suffering, afraid of hurting the child’s heart. As long as the children eat better, wear better, live more comfortable, some of the shortcomings of children, nor serious education, not strict requirements, that only showed the love of parents. Will such a love, what will produce the result? It is bound to the children habitually lazy, easy to ease, to guide them to the unscrupulous pursuit of personal enjoyment. This spoiled children, spoiled, in essence