目前,中国的离婚率持续上升,还有较大比例的婚姻关系处于不稳定状态。可以说,很多人的婚姻不幸福或不甚幸福。这其中的原因很多,但笔者认为婚姻生态环境发生了重大变化,而人们没有认识到这种变化,婚姻观念没有“与时俱进”是一个重要原因。本文在分析了婚姻生态发生急剧而重大的变化的同时,提出人们对婚姻应有全新的诉求,继而认为人们应当更新婚姻观念,注意婚姻与婚姻生态的调适。 At present, the divorce rate in China continues to rise, and a large proportion of the marital relationship is in an unstable state. It can be said that many people’s marriage is not happy or not happy. There are many reasons for this, but I think there have been major changes in the marital environment, but people do not realize this change. The concept of marriage does not “advance with the times” is an important reason. While analyzing the dramatic and significant changes in the marriage ecology, this paper proposes that people should have entirely new appeals to marriage. Then they think that people should update their concept of marriage and pay attention to the adjustment of marriage and marriage ecology.