人生在世,既能站得正,又能跳得出,这是一种很高的境界。在一定意义上,跳得出是站得正的前提,唯有看轻沉浮荣枯,才能不计利害得失,堂堂正正做人。对于自己的经历应该采取这样的态度:一是尽可能地诚实,正视自己的任何经历,尤其是不愉快的经历,把经历当作人生的宝贵财富;二是尽可能地超脱,从自己的经历中跳出来,站在一个比较高的位置上看它们,把经历当作认识人性的标本。 Life is alive. It can stand upright and jump. This is a very high realm. In a certain sense, jumping is the premise for standing upright. Only by looking at the light and floating, can we ignore the gains and losses, and behave honestly. For one’s own experience, one should adopt such attitudes: First, be as honest as possible, face up to any experience of your own, especially an unpleasant experience, regard experience as a valuable asset of life, and secondly, be as detached from your own experience as possible. Jump out and stand in a relatively high position to see them, and experience as a specimen to understand human nature.