懂得放弃是人生的大智慧。适时的放弃是自知与明智的美丽结晶。 记得一位老师给我们讲过一个故事。在森林里有一个部落,捕猴方法甚是独特。首先,做一个如鸟笼一般的笼子,木棍与木棍之间的缝隙恰能让猴爪子伸得进去,笼中放一些蜜桃。然后,找一个空场将笼子牢牢地固定住。负责捕猎的人在周围埋伏好,手持大鼓。待顽皮的猴子发现笼中的至爱,伸进爪子,向外拿桃的时候,埋伏的人立刻擂起大鼓,顿时,鼓声震天,人们群起而围之,受惊的猴子束手就擒。为什么呢?因为猴手抓住桃子不放,手不能抽出,只好任人处置了。 Know how to give up is the great wisdom of life. Timely give up is self-knowledge and wisdom of the beautiful crystallization. I remember a teacher told us a story. There is a tribe in the forest, catch the monkey method is very unique. First of all, make a cage like a birdcage. The gap between the stick and the stick just allows the monkey’s claw to stretch in. The cage contains some peaches. Then find an empty place to hold the cage firmly. The man in charge of the ambush is ambushing around and holding a bassoon. When the naughty monkey found his favorite in the cage, reached into the paw, and took the peach outwards, the ambushed man immediately beat the bass drum. Suddenly, the drums raged and the crowd gathered around the scared monkeys. Why? Because the monkey hand grasping the peach hold, hand can not pull out, had to deal with any one.