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许多人都有不小心打碎瓶子的经历,当看到一地碎片的情景,可能有的人会感到很懊悔,甚至害怕他人不原谅自己,选择了沉默或者说谎,乐观的人则可能会像老人们那样说句吉祥话“碎碎(岁岁)平安”来安慰自己。不管怎样,最后的结果都是将这些碎片扫起来,归入垃圾里,再也不会多想,很快就会将它们忘掉。我们对待碎片的经验就如同对待遗憾、痛苦或者失败等,很少会在这上面多想多做些什么,认为它们比较没有价值,
Many people have accidentally broken the bottle experience, when you see the scene of a piece of debris, some people may feel very sorry, or even afraid of others do not forgive myself, choose silence or lie, optimistic people may be like Old people say good news “broken (old) safe ” to comfort myself. In any case, the end result is to sweep these pieces into the rubbish, no longer think about it, will soon forget them. Our experience of treating fragments is like treating regret, suffering, or failure, and we seldom want to do more on this subject, thinking that they are worthless,