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很少有人会把网络上的名字和现实中的人联系到一起,因为多数时候,网名只是一个符号,和本人毫不“搭界”。可见到许悦之后,我的这个“旧观念”受到了一次冲击。这个在母婴论坛里取名为“江南梅雨”的女子,外形和气质真的很“江南”,纤细的身段,白皙的皮肤,笑眼弯弯,声音柔柔。在采访中,我常常把她的网名理所当然地顺口叫做“江南美女”,对于我这个北方人来说,江南美女的形象就是这样。许悦的宝宝兜兜是个“能说会道”的小男孩,在宾馆的长廊里,兜兜边说着“逃之夭夭,逃之夭夭”,边轻快地跑着,双肩背包一跳一跳,这样的场景让我惊讶不已,只有19个月的小宝宝,却能把成语说得这么清晰,对于我的这份诧异许悦倒显得很平静。过了一些日子,许悦给我发来—份名为“随笔宝宝”的文档,里面摘录了她一部分育儿日记,看过这份文档之后,我以前的诧异都没了,取而代之的是对其育儿方式的赞赏。许悦说自己的育儿过程有一点“计划”的味道,对她的采访也以这些育儿日记和“计划”为主线开始了。
Few people associate the name on the Internet with people in the real world, because most of the time the name of a screen is just a symbol, and there is no “hitch” with me. After seeing Xu Yue, my “old idea” has been hit once. The girl named “Jiangnan Meiyu” in Mother and Baby Forum, the shape and temperament really “Jiangnan”, slender figure, white skin, smiley eyes, soft voice. In an interview, I often called her net name for granted, “Jiangnan beauty”, for me, this northerner, Jiangnan beauty image is like this. Xu Yue’s baby goes around is a “can tell” the little boy, in the hotel’s promenade, go around and said, “Get away, get away”, while running lightly, shoulders backpack jumping, this scene surprised me , Only 19 months old baby, but can make the idioms so clear, for my surprise Xu Yuetai seemed calm. A few days later, Xu Yue sent me a copy of her essay titled “Essay Baby,” a section of her parenting diary. After reading this document, I had not been surprised before and replaced it with Appreciation of parenting style. Xu Yue said that her own childcare process has a little “plan” flavor. Interview with her also started with these parenting diaries and “plan”.