如果现在问:“有哪个父母在内心中不想当好爸爸好妈妈?”答案一定是:“没有,绝对没有。”所以,每一个父母看了下面的标题,第一反应可能都是觉得很委屈。我们也知道父母的操劳,也明白父母无私的奉献。但是,我们还是希望、呼唤当今的父母,留一点时间,冷静地反省一下自己。父母一直都是在要求孩子该怎样、不该怎样,这个是对的、那个是错的,可是背过孩子,甚至就当着孩子的面,他们往往在自己实际的言行中做出了相反的一面;父母一直在忙着工作、忙着带孩子,然而有没有质疑过自己的教育方式?有没有真正关心过孩子的心灵?……在新加坡,具有大学本科学历的妈妈,每生一个孩子就会得到政府的一定补助。这足以看出他们对父母素质的重视,因为他们明白:孩子是父母的影子,父母是孩子的第一任导师。在美国,家长与孩子说话,总是蹲下来,是平视而不是俯视孩子,这传达了一种民主、平等和心灵的沟通。所以,我们想对父母说:“身教重于言教。”当我们在要求孩子该如何、下该如何的时候,应该先问问自己是否做到了,只有先对自己提出要求才能对孩子提出要求。 If you now ask: “Which parents do not want to be good dads in their hearts?” The answer must be: “No, definitely not.” So every parent reads the title below, and the first reaction may be I feel very wronged. We also know the hard work of our parents and the selfless dedication of our parents. However, we still hope that today’s parents will be called to stay calm and reflect on themselves. Parents are always asking children what to do, what to do, this is right, that is wrong, but back to children, even in the face of children, they often make their own words and deeds in the opposite Parents have been busy working, busy with children, but have not questioned their own way of education? Have you really concerned about the child’s heart? ... In Singapore, with a bachelor’s degree in mom, one child per child Will get some government subsidies. This is enough to see that their emphasis on the quality of parents, because they understand: children are the shadow of parents, parents are children’s first mentor. In the United States, when parents talk with their children, they always squat down instead of overlooking their children, which conveys a democratic, equal and spiritual communication. Therefore, we would like to say to our parents: “Teaching is more important than teaching.” When we ask how to do the child, we should ask ourselves whether we can do it or not, and ask our child Claim.