家庭教育、学校教育、社会教育是教育的三大支柱,三者缺一不可。搞好家庭教育,首先必须转变家长的观念,提高家长的自身素质,要采取多种方式对学生家长进行正确的成才观、人才观教育,使他们能正确地对孩子进行家庭教育。家长望子成龙,希望孩子受到更好的教育,这种心情是可以理解的。但是,如果对孩子提出不切实际的过高要求,忽视了全面健康的发展,或主观上要求孩子学得更好, Family education, school education and social education are the three pillars of education, and the three are indispensable. To do a good job in family education, we must first change the concept of parents and improve the quality of parents. We must adopt a variety of methods to educate parents on the right concepts of talent and talent, so that they can educate their children properly. It is understandable that parents should look forward to success and hope their children receive better education. However, if unrealistically excessive demands are placed on children, comprehensive and healthy developments are neglected, or children are subjectively required to learn better,