在中国,给老人让座是公认的美德,而在日本却不是这样,你知道是什么原因吗?“让座”之类的小事,与其说它是一种美德,不如说它是一种带有宗教色彩的“心灵技巧”。凡是去过日本的人,都会赞赏日本人的礼貌。笔者的母亲是一位典型的具有大国情怀的骄傲的中国人,第一次来日本时,在大街上东张西望了一番之后,脱口对我说道:“瞧瞧这长相!整条街上看来看去,只有两个美 In China, it is a recognized virtue to give seats to the elderly, but not in Japan. Do you know the reason? ”Instead of letting a seat like a small virtue be a virtue, it is a belt Religious “spiritual skills ”. Anyone who has been to Japan will appreciate the courtesy of the Japanese. The author’s mother is a typical proud Chinese with great national power. After coming to Japan for the first time, after looking around in the street, she blurted out to me: "Look at this look! Look at the whole street Look, there are only two beauty