美国幼儿教育专家莉莲·凯茨研究发现,很多孩子在学习的过程中,会因为某些原因逐渐产生对学习的无能感,并因此而丧失自信心,给别人的感觉是,这些孩子“越学越笨”。其实,有一种“笨”是学来的。而吸走他们自信心的是以下三种教育方式。1.过高的学习目标有些家长不考虑孩子的心理和智商发展情况,一味分派学习 Lillian Katz, an expert in early childhood education in the United States, found that many children, for some reason, gradually become incompetent about learning due to some reasons and thus lose their confidence. The feeling to others is that these children “ Learn more stupid ”. In fact, there is a “stupid ” is learned. The following three kinds of education methods are sucked away from their confidence. 1. Too high learning goals Some parents do not consider the child’s mental and intellectual development, blindly assigned learning