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父母爱子女,一定要用正确的方式去爱,不可溺爱也不可不爱。文章从文人出发,所举名人例子信手拈来,而且教育意义深刻。父母之爱子,最好是为之计深远。《管子·权修》曰:“终身之计,莫如树人。”望子成龙、望女成凤,几千年来一直是中国父母的理想,文人也不例外。而文人对子女的期望又常常高于普通父母,因而对子女要求往往更严格,在子女教育上也付出更多。流传广泛的《颜氏家训》、《朱子家训》等,便是文人在家庭教育上呕心沥血的最佳例证。
Parents love their children, must use the right way to love, love can not be spoiled. Articles from the literati, celebrities cited examples come in handy, but also profound educational significance. The love of parents, it is best for far-reaching plan. “Pipe power repair” said: “lifelong plan, like a tree. ” Succeed, hopeful woman, for thousands of years has been the ideal of Chinese parents, scholars are no exception. Literati’s expectations of children are often higher than that of ordinary parents, so their demands on children tend to be more stringent and their children’s education also pay more. Extensive “Yan Family Instructions”, “Zhu Jia Jiaxun”, etc., is the best example of literati in home education.