当代中国的改革猛烈地冲击着中国社会的各个领域；在市场经济下的中国家庭伦理文化，正在发生着既喜且化、喜中含化的巨大变化。这种巨大变化，概括起来有以下几点：首先，它具有两极性。一极是文明、进步的因素激增。其主要的表现是：第一，随着人们个性的解放，自我意识的增 The reform of contemporary China has violently impacted all areas of Chinese society. Under the market economy, there has been a tremendous change in the family ethics of Chinese family, both positive and negative. To sum up, this huge change has the following points: First, it has two polarities. One pole is civilization, and the factor of progress soars. Its main performance is: First, with the liberation of people’s personality, increased self-awareness