做父母的大多希望自己的孩子成“龙”成“凤”,于是就常常拿一些有名望、有地位、有成就的大人物来激励自己的孩子。拿自己的孩子和大人物的童年去比、和别的孩子去比,却常常达不到理想的教育效果,有的还会引起孩子的反感。 Most of their parents want their children to become “phoenixes,” and they often motivate their children with some famous, influential and accomplished big men. Take their own children and older people than to go, compared with other children, but often do not achieve the desired effect of education, and some will cause the child’s resentment.