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在养育孩子的这段过程中,父母是家庭的框架而孩子则是家庭的灵魂。一旦孩子长大成人离开了家,父母们大概都要经历段灵魂出壳的感觉。这时,人很愿意往回看,一直看到孩子出生的时候。家庭是孩子性格形成的摇篮很多父母和我们一样非常重视对孩子的教育,从小就注意多方面地给孩子开发智力,灌输知识。我认为家庭教育的真正要素不是教书而是育人。我这个知识水平不算低的父亲,并没有花多大的功夫教女儿知识、督促她学习,而是下了很大功夫在关键时刻保护孩子的自尊心,扶植她的自信心。在她困难的时候,不是简单地保护她,而是给她以极大的信任,放手让她承受几乎达到自己极限的逆境考验.锻炼自己的意志,从而建立起很难被摧毁的自尊心和自信心。正如我常对女儿说的:自尊自信乃成才之本。
In the process of raising children, parents are the frame of family and children are the soul of family. Once a child has grown up and leaves home, parents probably have to experience the feeling of the soul of the section. At this time, people are willing to look back, always see the child was born. Family is the cradle of children’s character formation Many parents, like us, attach great importance to their children’s education. From an early age, they pay attention to developing intelligence and instilling knowledge in children in many aspects. I think the real element of family education is not teaching but educating people. My father, with a low level of knowledge, did not spend much time teaching her daughter’s knowledge and urged her to learn. Instead, she took a great effort to protect her self-esteem and build her self-confidence at a critical time. Instead of simply protecting her in her difficult times, she gives her a great deal of trust and let her withstand the stress of being almost at her own limit, exercising her own will and building a hard-to-destroy self-esteem and confidence heart. As I often tell my daughter: Self-esteem and self-confidence is the foundation for success.