一我和娟儿相识于网络。那个时候,我在大西北一所大学任教,她在江南的一所大学任教。经历了半年的异地恋后,在一次面都没见过的情况下,娟儿就辞职不远千里跳槽到我所在的学校,两个人拿学校给的安家费买了一所小房子,便开始了柴米油盐的凡俗日子。结婚容易过日子难。由于婚前缺乏了解和磨合,我们被“闪婚”闪了腰。婚前的娟儿有两大 I know each other in the network and Juan children. At that time, I was teaching at a university in the Greater Northwest, where she taught at a university in Jiangnan. After six months of long-distance relationship, after having never seen one of the faces, Juan Er resigned a thousand miles away to work in my school. Both of them took a little house from the security fee bought by the school and started The daily necessities of daily life. Marriage is easy to live hard. Because of lack of understanding before marriage and run-in, we were “flash marriage” flashed. There are two pre-marital Juan children