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犹豫不决怎么办当我们走进婚姻的城堡后,由于种种原因,有时会受到配偶外的异性诱惑,进而滋生婚外恋情。在意识到问题的严重性,打算退出这片情感的沼泽地,却又难以割舍时,不妨采取以下三种具体办法： 1.拿两张纸,先在一张纸上面把自己对理想情侣应具备的才德罗列出来,并写出各项该得分数。然后用另一张纸参照前面的标准,冷静地给对方打分,看看究竟能得多少分。这样的量化分析有助于认清对方在你心里究竟该占有多大的位置,从而帮你把那过热的情感降温。 2.如果对方对你的吸引力主要是外表的,请坐下来静想一下,再过10年、20年,对方会老成什么样子,或是会胖成什么模样,是否还像现在这么可爱?答案无疑
What to do when hesitating When we enter the castle of marriage, we may sometimes be tempted by the opposite sex of the spouse for a variety of reasons, thus breeding an extramarital affair. In recognizing the seriousness of the problem and intending to withdraw from this emotional swamp, but difficult to let go, may wish to take the following three specific ways: 1. Take two sheets of paper, first on a piece of paper to their own ideal couple should With only that list, and write out the score. Then use another piece of paper with reference to the previous standard, calmly give each other a score, see how many points can be obtained. Such a quantitative analysis can help you understand exactly how much each other should occupy in your heart and help you cool down that overheated emotion. 2. If the other side of your attractiveness is mainly appearance, please sit down and think about it, and then 10 years, 20 years, the other will be what to look like, or will become fat appearance, is it still so cute? The answer is no doubt