没有坏孩子,只有不懂教育的父母。称职的父母懂得尊重孩子的个性,努力发掘出他的潜质,并给他足够空间自由发展。到底怎样做,才算称职的父母呢?⒈让孩子自己做决定。当孩子有了独立思考的能力,就把决定权交给他,家长可以解释可能出现的各种结果,分析利弊,让他自己做决定。比如,要不要报舞蹈班,可以告诉他大概需要付出什么努力,可以给他看相关视频,也要告知需要坚持才出 No bad boy, only parents who do not know education. A competent parent knows how to respect a child’s personality, tries to find out his potential, and gives him enough room to develop freely. What to do in the end, be considered competent parents? Let the children make their own decisions. When the child has the ability to think independently, he is given the power to decide. The parents can explain the various possible outcomes, analyze the pros and cons and make his own decisions. For example, do not want to report dance classes, you can tell him probably need to pay what efforts can give him the relevant video, but also to inform the need to persevere