他忽然意识到,这一切跟父亲有多么相似。我有很多来访者,跟原生家庭的关系处不好。“原生家庭”甚至已经变成了某种“病态”的代名词。我的一个来访者向我抱怨他和父母旷日持久的战争,从小时候一直打到现在。父母做的每一件事都是他的反面教材:他们的一切主张都是过时的,保守的,有害身心的。“他们非常抠门,什么东西都用最便宜的。”我的来访者说,“现在他们还是一跟我逛街就唠叨。我跟 Suddenly he realized how similar it was to his father. I have a lot of visitors who have a poor relationship with the original family. ”Native Families “ has even become synonymous with some sort of ”morbid state.“ One of my visitors complained to me about his protracted war with his parents until now. Everything that parents do is his negative teaching: All their claims are outdated, conservative, harmful to mind and body. ”They are very stingy, everything is the cheapest. “ My visitors said ”Now they still nagging with me shopping.