“孤独,莫名的孤独时常萦绕在我的心间,觉得自己处于集体边缘,好凄凉啊!”海燕向我说这句话时,我感觉到一股“山穷水尽”的味道。张海燕,是我的一个同学,参加工作有几年了,她自己说在工作上是任劳任怨,为单位出了不少力,可就是老觉得自己不被大家所接受,确切地说是被大家所排斥。当领导分配活儿时,她拿的总是些“边角余料”的活儿,一项大的策划书,却只让她负责排版校对,什么策划方案、思路根本不用她,组里人讨论得热火朝天,争论得面红耳赤时,她却插不上一句话,他们不听也不愿意她插话,“我觉得自己成了‘打酱油的’,更可气的是每当他们探讨一些策划具体实施方案的核心问题时,总会把我支开,不是让我帮他们去取快件就是说没咖啡了,让我到超市去买,整个一个仆人 ”Lonely, inexplicable loneliness often linger in my heart, feel that they are at the collective edge, so desolate ah!“ Swallow said to me this sentence, I feel a ”mountain of exhaustion “ taste. Zhang Haiyan is one of my classmates. She has been in the work for a few years. She said she was hard at work on her part and did not exert any force on her work unit. However, she always felt that she was not accepted by everyone, that is to say, Exclusion. When the leadership of the distribution of work, she always take more than a corner of the work, a big plan, but only let her responsible for typesetting proofing, what planning programs, ideas do not have her, group When the debates debounded in full swing and the debates raged, she could not stop saying anything. They did not listen or do not want her to intervene. ”I think I’ve become a ’soy sauce,’ and even more exasperating is that whenever they talk about Some planning the core issues of the specific implementation plan, always open me, not let me help them to pick up express that no coffee, let me go to the supermarket to buy, the entire servant