和中学生真诚交谈,他们会告诉你许多苦恼。这些苦恼不少属于思想问题、性格问题或习惯问题。但是也有一些问题比较复杂。比如,学习中越是想听懂的越是听不懂,越是想记住的越是忘得快;总感到生活单调乏味,对什么都提不起兴趣;有时,明知道眼下该干什么,可就是不想着手;即使强迫自己集中注意,也是“眼在黑板,心在窗外”;知道自己成绩下降,可还是看到课本就膩烦, Talk to middle school students honestly and they will tell you a lot of distress. Many of these distress are thought problems, personality problems or habits. But there are also some issues that are complicated. For example, the more you want to understand in learning, the more you do not understand, the more you want to remember. The more you forget about things, the more tedious you are in life, the less interest you are in everything. Sometimes you know what you are doing right now Just do not want to start; even if you force yourself to focus, but also “eyes on the blackboard, heart out of the window”; know their grades decline, but still see the text on the boredom,