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为了社交的需要,当然也是一种文明,每天,我总免不了要在梳妆镜前花去一些时间。开始,儿子有些好奇,问我:“妈妈,为什么要涂红嘴巴?”我丈夫在一旁答话:“你妈妈,臭美!”于是全家人一笑了之。一次,我因时间紧迫,匆忙中没来得及将化妆盒收拾好。等我晚上回家时,只见化妆盒中的那只口红早已所剩无几,而梳妆镜上、桌上乃至儿子最喜爱的玩具小布熊的脸上、屁股上以及儿子的嘴巴上都涂满了口红。面对我的愠色,儿子却不无得意地告诉我:“这是我做的!妈妈,你说小熊漂亮吗?我漂亮吗?” 由此我想到,无论我丈夫使用怎样轻蔑的口吻,试图让儿子去忽视女人爱美的方式,然而,毕竟每个人都爱美,儿子幼小的心灵中也依然给美留下了位置。但男人与女人的美并不相同,女人需要的美,对男人来讲却不一定是美。男人与女人在衣着、装扮上的差异,正是由男、女性别角色的不同使然。
In order to social needs, of course, is a kind of civilization, every day, I always inevitably spend some time in the vanity mirror. At the beginning, my son was a little curious and asked me: “Mom, why do you have a red mouth?” My husband replied: “Your mom is beautiful!” So the whole family laughed. Once, because of the urgency of my time, I did not have time to clean up the makeup case. When I came home in the evening, I saw the lipstick in the makeup box had already disappeared, and on the vanity mirror, on the table and even on the son’s son’s favorite toy cloth face, buttocks and son’s mouth Full of lipstick In the face of my shame, my son did not know without my own satisfaction: “This is what I do! Mom, do you say that Cubs are beautiful? I am pretty?” So I think, no matter how contemptuous tone my husband uses , Trying to make her son ignore the beauty of women, however, after all, everyone is beauty, his son’s young mind is still left to the United States. However, the beauty of men and women is not the same. The beauty that women need is not necessarily the beauty of men. Differences between men and women in clothing, dress, it is by the different roles of men and women.