“我曾为自己定下许多目标,也都一一达成。我的事业十分成功,但却牺牲了个人与家庭的幸福,这值得吗?……”;“我要做的事太多了,时间总是不够用,每天都觉得很紧张,匆匆忙忙。我无法过着理想中既充实又自在的生活,而且别无选择……”;“我拥有财富和成就感,可失去了内心的平静……”这无疑是诸多成功人士的生活写照。史蒂芬·柯维《高效能人士的七个习惯》告诉我们:仅有事业成功只能算成功了一半,惟有兼顾事业、家庭、人际关系、个人成长等人生其它层面的和谐发展才是真正的成功。作者倡导有识之士应告别旧习惯:人的行为总是一再重复,但要取得卓越不只是单一举动,而是要靠良好的习惯。要提升自我,赢得革命性的效果,必须从观念着手,暂时牺牲眼前的安适与利益,树立克服“惯性”的信念,并且“由内而外全面地造就自己”。可以说观念是态度与行为的根本,观念决定行为,行为形成习惯,而习惯左右着我们的成败,成功其实是习惯使然。 “I have set many goals for myself, are also achieved one by one .. My career is very successful, but at the expense of personal and family happiness, is it worth? ... ” More, time is not enough, every day feel very nervous, hurried ... I can not live an ideal full and comfortable life, and have no choice ... “” I have a sense of wealth and accomplishment, Can lose the peace of mind ...... “This is undoubtedly the portrayal of many successful people. Steven Covey’s ”Seven Habits of Highly Effective People,“ tells us that only career success can only be achieved in half, only the harmonious development of other aspects of life, such as business, family, relationships, and personal growth, is the real success . The writer advocates that good people should say goodbye to old habits: people’s behavior is always repeated, but achieving excellence is more than just a single act, but good habits. In order to enhance ourselves and win revolutionary results, we must start from the notion, sacrifice immediate comfort and interest, establish the belief of overcoming ”inertia“, and ”create ourselves from the inside out." Can be said that ideas are the fundamental attitude and behavior, the concept of decision-making behavior, behavior habit, but the habit of our success or failure, success is actually used to it.