家庭危机状况的消极社会后果是严重和多方面的。所谓危机状况,是指离婚、子女教育恶化、未成年子女违法、酗酒、临界神经精神紊乱加剧、性生活不谐调和身心疾病(胃溃疡、支气管气喘、高血压、神经性皮炎等),而在一些情况下,还企图自杀。我们应当认识到,毫无冲突的夫妻生活根本不是什么理想,更谈不上是婚姻职能的准则。夫妻关系中总隐含着冲突的种子。有一种意见认为,只有夫妻的主观看法才是婚姻关系是否和谐 The negative social consequences of the family crisis are serious and multifaceted. The so-called crisis situation refers to the situation of divorce, deterioration of children’s education, minor children’s violation of law, alcohol abuse, aggravating of critical neuropsychiatric disorders, disharmony of sexual life and physical and mental diseases (gastric ulcer, bronchial asthma, hypertension, neurodermatitis, etc.) In some cases, they also attempt to commit suicide. We should realize that a conflict-free married life is not ideal at all, much less a criterion of the marriage function. The relationship between husband and wife always contains the seeds of conflict. There is a view that only the subjective view of the couple is the marital relationship is harmonious