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孩子的降临,对年轻父母的生活冲击无疑是巨大的。在调查中发现,有25%的父亲和50.3%的母亲坦陈“自从有了孩子,我几乎没有了原先的娱乐与爱好”;20.7%的父亲和43.6%的母亲认为“为了孩子,我放弃了不少自身发展的机会”。看来,母亲在这些方面的牺牲更大。在本世纪60年代,有一种观点开始悄悄盛行起来,我们称之为人的毕生发展观点。认识与了解这种观点,对为人父母者的心态调整非常有帮助。传统的发展观假定,人成熟或成长到某一特定的状态便达到了发展的终点,它通常在人的青春期或成年期。在此以后,个体身上所体现出的变化,则被视
The advent of children, the impact on the lives of young parents is undoubtedly enormous. In the survey, 25% of the fathers and 50.3% of the mothers admitted that “since I had my baby, I had almost no previous amusement and hobbies.” 20.7% of fathers and 43.6% of mothers said “For children, I gave up a lot of opportunities for their own development. ” It appears that mothers sacrificed more in these areas. In the 60s of this century, a view began to quietly prevail, we call it the human life point of view. Understanding and understanding of this view, very helpful for parental attitude adjustment. The traditional concept of development assumes that the end of development is reached when people mature or grow to a particular state, usually during adolescence or adulthood. After that, the changes reflected in the individual are seen