老人疼爱子孙的心情可以理解,但方法必须要得当。为官有为官之道,经商有经商之道,疼孙也有——过去有个说法,叫做:“老儿子,大孙子,老人的命根子。”也就是说,一般的老人都比较疼爱最小的儿子和最大的孙子。因为小儿子年幼,老人总怕照顾不周,长孙是第一个孙子,老人初次感受天伦之乐。正因如此,老人对小儿子和长孙略 Elderly people love the feelings of descendants can understand, but the method must be properly. As official and official way, business has business, pain Sun also - in the past there is a saying, called: “old son, grandchildren, the lifeblood of the elderly.” In other words, the general elderly are more Love the youngest son and the grandson of the largest. Because young children are young, the elderly are always afraid of taking care of them. Sun Chang is the first grandchild and the elderly feel the joy of family development for the first time. Because of this, the old man ignores the younger son and his grandchild