在男性喜新厌旧抛弃发妻的歌德说话中,女性所吟诵的和歌在关键时刻发挥效力令男性回心转意的现象屡见不鲜,然而中国文学作品中类似的场景却往往以失败告终。本文通过对日本和歌与中国诗歌的对比分析,总结出和歌具有短小精炼、情真意切、能够直击人心最柔软部分这一核心特征,进而得出其在帮助女性示弱的效果上比中国诗歌有优越性的结论。 In the case of Goethe, a man who loves his wife and loves his wife, the recitation of the hymn by women plays a key role in men’s life. However, similar scenes in Chinese literary works often end in failure. Through the comparative analysis of Japanese songs and Chinese poetry, this article summarizes the core features of the hypo-verse, which are short, refined and sincere, and can watch the softest part of the human heart, and then concludes that it is superior to Chinese poetry in helping women show weakness Sexual conclusion.