杨绛先生晚年回忆与钱钟书、钱瑗的生活,用这本书记述了他们这个特殊家庭63年的风风雨雨、点点滴滴。她并没有用悲伤来怀念她所深爱着的两个人,她的笔触是很平淡、很温暖的,像傍晚的夕阳。六十多年间的缘起缘灭,成就了一段美得令人窒息的回忆。一个年过九旬的老人,静静追忆往事,偶尔带着些许的迷茫,却哀而不伤,令人心生温暖,泪中带笑。亲情的确就是一种冷暖自知的东西,在每个人的身边,每个人的感受却都不相同。一杯温热的牛奶,一声仔细的嘱咐,一句低声的责备,也许只有自己才能体会到这样的 In his later years, Mr. Yang Jiang recalled memories of the life of Qian Zhongshu and Qian Yong, and used this book to describe the ups and downs of their special family for 63 years. She did not sad to miss the two people she loved deeply, her brush is very plain, very warm, like the evening sunset. Sixty years of origin disappear, the achievements of a beautiful breathtaking memories. A man over ninety years old, quietly recalled the past, and occasionally with a little confused, but sad but not hurt, it is warm and warm, tears with a smile. Affection is indeed a kind of warm and cold self-knowledge of things, in everyone’s side, everyone’s feelings are different. A cup of warm milk, as soon as asked carefully, a whispered reproof, maybe only you can understand this