一般情况下,结婚以后,许多夫妻都会领略到不少在恋爱阶段没有感受到的美妙与快乐。但也有的夫妻对婚后的生活大失所望,发出了婚姻是爱情的坟墓的感叹。有的撇下新婚的妻子,重新回到集体宿舍,重新与光棍们一起“修长城”。这种现象至少为我们提出了一个问题:男子汉如何才能当个好丈夫?这不仅仅是一个家庭问题,也是一个社会问题。 Under normal circumstances, after marriage, many couples will appreciate a lot in the love stage did not feel the wonderful and happy. However, some couples are greatly disappointed with the life after their marriage and have issued sighs that marriage is a tomb of love. Some left the newlywed wife, returned to the dormitory, with the bachelor who again “long the Great Wall.” This phenomenon at least raises a question for us: How can a man become a good husband? This is not only a family issue but also a social issue.