访澳归来,那里的许多人和事仍历历在目,如一些家长蹲着同小孩谈话,和孩子在一个水平高度上,面对面地谈话,给我留下了很深刻的印象。第一次见到这种情景是在我住的朋友家。一个周末,他们请了一对青年夫妇和孩子来吃晚饭,当这个两岁多的孩子吃饱了,下地要去玩时,孩子的母亲也立即离开餐桌,蹲下来面对着孩子说:“你是不是坐到离餐桌远一点的地毯上去画画?”孩子高兴地坐到那边独自玩去了。当时,我虽因为这位家长蹲下来对小孩子说话而惊讶,即又以为这是这位妈妈特有的教育方式而未再多问。 Returning to Australia, where many people and things are still vivid, such as some parents squatting talk with the children, and children at a level, face-to-face conversation, left a deep impression on me. The first time I saw this scene was at my friend’s house. One weekend, they invited a young couple and children to have dinner. When the two-year-old child was full and going to play, the child’s mother immediately left the table and squatted to face the child. “Did you sit on the carpet a little further from the table?” "The child is happy to sit there and play alone. At that time, although I was surprised when I was speaking to a child because I was squatting, I did not ask any more about this mother-specific education.