鼓励孩子说心里话。有次跟朋友谈心,聊到我最怕什么。我说:我最怕女儿从幼儿园回来,忽然表现得超乎寻常的懂事。比如,我不仅不用将一进门就冲进玩具区的她拎到门厅换鞋洗手,她还边换边说“妈妈你上了一天班,累不累?”然后双手奉上我的拖鞋,蹲下来帮我解鞋带儿。根本不“正常”嘛!准是在幼儿园不听话的时候老师凶、她、了!肯定好好教育了一番小孩要“听话”!内心涌起一股心疼。我不愿意她太乖。因为平时她就不 Encourage your child to say something. Talk to my friend once and talk about what I am most afraid of. I said: I am most afraid of her daughter back from kindergarten, suddenly appeared extraordinary sensible. For example, I not only did not rush into the toy area of ​​a door she went to the hall to wash your hands and shoes, she also changed the edge of that “Mom you go to day classes, tired?” And then my hands my slippers Squat down to help my shoelaces children. Not at all “normal” Well! Quasi kindergarten is not obedient when the teacher fierce, she, and certainly have a good education for some children to “obedient ”! Heart filled with a distressed. I do not want her too good. Because usually she does not