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【案例】小茹是一名初一年级的学生。在老师眼里,她是一个懂事的好帮手;在同学眼里,她是一个乐于助人、善良热情的好朋友。但是她自己却觉得每天都过得很累,很辛苦,一点儿都不快乐。尽管小茹为朋友做了很多,但是她却很孤独,觉得自己根本就没有朋友,没有人可以相信,遇到困难时也没有人会帮助自己。在家里,小茹的父母对她的要求比较严格。每当她做错了事情,父母就会狠狠地批评她,还总是把“你再这样就不喜欢你”之类的话挂在嘴边。有时候
【Case】 Xiaoru is a first grade student. In the eyes of the teacher, she is a sensible good helper; in the eyes of students, she is a helpful, kind-hearted good friend. However, she felt very tired, very hard and not happy at all. Although Xiao Ru did a lot for her friends, she was lonely, feeling she had no friends at all, no one could believe that no one would help himself in the face of difficulties. At home, Xiaoru parents her requirements more stringent. Whenever she does something wrong, her parents criticize her fiercely and always talk about things like “you do not like you again”. sometimes