每一个人或多或少都在不同方面被“过来人”教育过。“我是过来人,听我的,我是为你好啊!”或许你也说过这样一句话来指导别人的人生。对于“过来人”的忠告,我们当然应该虚心听取,有则改之无则加勉,但是,人生的路,并不是只有那一条路。有时候“过来人”的话也未必就是力挽狂澜的神药。人生路上,我们需要的是您的指点,但不是您的指指点点。 Everyone is more or less educated in different aspects by “comers ”. “I am here, listen to me, I am good for you!” Perhaps you have also said such a sentence to guide others’ lives. Of course, we should humbly listen to the advice of “people over here ”. However, there is nothing to be encouraged but the path to life is not the only one. Sometimes “over people ” is not necessarily the magic of turning the tide. On the way of life, we need your guidance, but not your finger.