中国人团圆时节的家庭聚会、亲朋互访中,孩子的兴趣是彼此间最容易沟通的主题。很容易,你会遇到一些来自家长的“中国式骄傲”。比如,“我家小孩最喜欢音乐了,听到音乐就要扭屁股”。既然最普通的生理反应都可上升到夸饰的炫耀,那么,从各级起跑线上对“兴趣”乐此不疲的开发,就属再正常不过。不正常的是,经过了若干年的折腾,在进入大学校园的孩子们中,对 Chinese reunion season family gatherings, friends and relatives visit, the children’s interest is the most easy to communicate with each other the theme. It is easy, you will encounter some from the parents of “Chinese pride.” For example, “My child’s favorite music, hear the music will be twisted ass ”. Since the most common physiological responses can all rise to exaggerated display, it is normal to enjoy the development of “interest” at all levels. What is not normal is that after years of frustration, among the children who have entered university campuses,