北京市教育研究会曾就“你遇到失败打击时能顶住吗”的问题进行了广泛的问卷调查,结果31.2％的儿童回答“自己承受挫折的能力不强”、“没有经受过失败的打击和锻炼”;有5.5％的儿童说“顶不住失败的打击”、“遇到失败打击时我会束手无策”。这样的结果表明,对孩子进行挫折教育是很有必要的。其实,孩子抗挫折能力的欠缺与我们家长的教养态度不无关系。日本孩子两岁起就开始意志锻炼,自 The Beijing Municipal Education Research Society conducted an extensive questionnaire on the question “Can you withstand the failure to fight you?”. As a result, 31.2% of the children answered that they were “not able to withstand their own setbacks,” “have not failed Strike and Exercise ”; 5.5% of the children said that“ they could not resist the defeat of the defeat ”and“ I was at a loss when the defeat was hit. ” Such results show that it is necessary to set up a setback education for children. In fact, children’s lack of ability to fight setbacks and our parental rearing attitude are not unrelated. Japanese children begin to exercise since age two