一个高僧有一次给他的弟子讲了这么一个故事: 一个商人娶了4个妻子。有一次,商人要出远门,为免除长途旅行的寂寞,他决定在4个妻子中选一个陪伴自己。他把这个想法一说,第一个妻子说:“你去吧,我才不去呢!”第二个说:“我是被你抢来的,本来就不愿当你的小老婆,我不去!”第三个说 One monk once told such a story to his disciple: A businessman married four wives. On one occasion, when a businessman wanted to leave, he decided to appoint one of his four wives to accompany him in order to avoid the loneliness of long-distance travel. He said this idea, the first wife said: “You go, I won’t go!” The second said: "I was robbed of you, I wouldn’t be your little wife, I don’t Go!” said the third