忌偏爱老人对儿子、女儿、媳妇、女婿等都要一视同仁,不应厚此薄彼,要像亲生子女一样看待。忌猜疑不要听风就是雨,有怀疑的事不要闷在心里,要当面问清楚,切忌胡乱猜测,以免影响家庭团结。 Avoid prejudice to the elderly on the son, daughter, daughter-in-law, son-in-law should be treated equally, should not be the same, should be the same as their own children. Avoid suspicion Do not listen to the wind is the rain, there are doubts Do not bored in the heart, to face to ask, avoid arbitrary speculation, so as not to affect family unity.