每个人,每一天,都在做着一些改变身体、气质和素质的事情,仅从眼前来看的话,或许并不那么显而易见,可是一旦拉长到整个人生,就会高下毕现。儿子18个月大了,刚学会走路,走起来晃晃悠悠。半个月前,我到北京学习的路上,接到妻子的电话,说是儿子患肺炎在医院挂水了。我想象着尖尖的针管扎进 Everyone, every day, are doing something to change the body, temperament and quality, only from the immediate view, perhaps not so obvious, but once stretched to the whole life, it will come to an end. 18-month-old son, just learned to walk, walk and dangling. Half a month ago, on my way to Beijing, I received a telephone call from my wife saying that my son was suffering from pneumonia and was hanging in the hospital. I imagined a sharp syringe stuck in