若你拿一个苹果,让小孩子去够,孩子坐着的时候够不着,站起来依然够不着。这时候孩子不是号啕大哭,就会兴趣索然,转身去玩别的。在现实生活中,常常有这样的事发生,糟糕的是大人并不是以游戏的方式介入,那苹果也是无形的。当孩子够不着的时候,大人会生气,会焦虑,却忘记了把苹果放低一点。 If you take an apple, let the children go enough, when the child is sedentary enough, stand up still enough. At this time the child is not crying, it will be interesting, turned around to play something else. In real life, there is often such a thing happened. The worst thing is that adults do not intervene in the way of games. That apple is also invisible. When children are out of reach, adults will be angry, anxious, but forget to lower the apple a little.