据调查显示,孩子中的多数有自己模仿、认同的对象,而其中80%左右的孩子以自己的父母作为认同的偶像。父母是孩子心目中的英雄人物。在很多家庭教育的文章中都提到,父母必须为孩子做出榜样。这看起来很沉重,而且要求过高,其实并非如此,不过是孩子总以父母的言行为榜样而己。 According to the survey, most of the children have their own imitation, identity of the object, of which about 80% of children with their own parents as idol. Parents are children’s heroines. In many family education articles it is mentioned that parents must set an example for their children. This looks very heavy, and demanding, in fact, not the case, but the children always take the example of their parents behavior.